Freebies for March - 2 for St. Patrick's Day!


Soon we will be wearing the green! Make getting ready easier with the open ended game from Looks-Like-Language! Then, check back in weekly to get the additional cards and worksheets to match!

This month, I am adding some targeted goals on my card sets to match the game for those of you who would like a little more structure. If you like to review your own skills, the open ended cards with the game will do the trick! Which set are you getting here? I guess you will have to click and find out!

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9 Tips for Teaching Choices to Special Needs Children

Choices: The Most Important Strategy has been my theme this month. I've posted tips for learning to make appropriate choices at varied ages. Don't miss my tips for toddlers and for preschoolers!
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Students with special needs need to go through these steps, too, although often they need more support and can take longer at each step along the way.  That is just their learning pattern. To help yourself out, find a way to snapshot what your child/student is like at intervals, whether it is parental  journaling or the extensive record keeping of a special needs teacher or SLP.

For parents, try to use something other than videos. When we take videos of our kids, we are trying to catch them at their cutest! I’m talking about having some reminder of when they are at their worst. Because when they are at their worst sometime in the future, that is when you will find support from seeing that they actually have made changes. When change happens incrementally, it is so hard to see and even harder to keep persevering!

While our special needs kids also have to learn to make good choices, they can benefit from some additional supports along the way. Visuals!  So many students with special needs, especially those with auditory processing problems and those who are on the spectrum, have so much difficulty with oral language. Pairing oral language with a visual support provides something with meaning to attach to the words, building comprehension skills whether your student speaks or is nonverbal.

3 Tips for Making Choices with Visuals




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Teaching Requesting
Hold actual objects in each arm, separated in space, to see which one is looked at, and then:
Pair the words with the choice. Say the name of the object the child is looking at. Pause a second to see if the child will verbalize first, but don’t let the child get frustrated. 
For children who don’t vocalize often, pair a pictured symbol with the object.  The easiest way is to cut the logo or photo from the  box, place it in front of the objects and help the child hand it to you to make a request.
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First/Then Boards
You determine the first activity that needs to be done, but the child gets to choose the follow-up activity.
For students who are still learning picture representations, I have found it helpful to place the photo/symbol on the board anyway, with the real object next to it, out of reach, with a wait sign covering easy access to it. You may need to start with one trial before allowing access, building up from there, to let the child see the sequence and come to understand that he will get the desired object after the work is done.

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Visual Schedules
When the student understands choice boards and that events occur in a sequence, it is time for visual schedules. With a First-Then Board, the student has learned to work through one complete activity before getting a choice. You can lengthen the amount slowly by using a visual schedule, showing the sequence of events during a therapy session. I like to use symbols that show the type of activity since they can be re-used, like those in this picture.
I included my ready-to-work attending cues on the top. I would say, "Your hands, feet and mouth need to be quiet so your eyes can look, your ears can listen and your brain can think!" After teaching this, my students often just needed a point cue at the pictures to remind them to get back on track.

3 Tips for Higher Level Students with Special Needs

TIP: When an inappropriate choice is being made, try to keep your emotions out of the picture.  Calmly point out the negative consequence of that choice and ask the student to reconsider their decision. Then give some time and space for thinking, letting it appear that they have come to a better decision independently.
TIP: When the child makes a bad decision, try not to have the “I told you so!” attitude. Comments such as, “We all learn from our mistakes.”  can show understanding without assigning blame. It lets you follow up later, when emotions have calmed, with a discussion of how to make reparation and how a similar situation could be handled differently next time.
TIP: When your student has an anxiety component, making choices can be incredibly stressful and lead to more problem behaviors, at times, than just expecting them to follow directions might.  This doesn’t mean that we should not be teaching these students to make choices, just that we need to handle this important growing up skill with kid gloves and collaborate with our teams.

Providing choices so that students can learn to make responsible choices is extremely important!  Do you agree?

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Freebies for March- St. Patrick's Day!

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I don't know about you, but I can never have enough open ended game boards around! All it takes is a make up session, with more than usual mismatched groups, or a day where my students are especially distracted, for me to go looking for a quick and easy game board to pull it all together.

I hope this month's freebie will do that for you! Of course, if all of your students are perfect angels, always, you may not need this, lol! You can download the free game at my store. Each week before the holiday, check back in to get additional game cards and worksheets that coordinate with the game. What a deal!

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Choices and Consequences- Language for Cause-Effect

Choices at Home and in Speech/Language Therapy


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Your little one who was running headlong into trouble is finally starting to get some idea of what they can do (safe) or can’t do (dangerous.) Whew! But, don’t relax for too long! Just when you take your eye off of them, they manage to get into some kind of trouble.

Preschool is the age when children are ready to learn that actions have consequences. They may not like the consequences, but they are realizing that they exist and are starting to show some skill at pushing your buttons. That means it is time to start teaching them that their actions have consequences, including on the feelings of others.

Choices and Consequences- 3 Tips for at Home
You can help the development of language, thinking skills and good choice making by offering choices with  consequences. This involves making statements like these:
"If you...., then...."
"When you ...., then..."
"If you want to....., then you need to....."
"You did...., so he feels...."
"When you ...., I feel.....because...."

Natural Consequences
Explain to your child what will happen next if inappropriate actions are occurring.  That is the natural consequence.  For example, “You can dump all of the toys out and make a big mess. Then you will have to clean them all up before TV time. Or, you can just take out the toys you want to play with. Then you will be able to clean up faster.”  Be sure to make the consequence you stated happen!

Make Consequences Actionable
Apply a consequence that lets your child  know what your rules are, why you think that and what he can expect to happen. In very simple terms, of course.  For example,  “Screaming in the store is not polite. If you can’t calm yourself down, we will have to go home and take a nap to calm down.” Be sure to have consequences that match the severity level of the behavior and that you can act upon consistently. Be careful of words like ‘never’!

Teach the Consequences for Feelings
Help your child see that actions have impact on other’s peoples’ feelings. Since that doesn’t have a large impact on children’s actions in the beginning, be sure to have another consequence, as well. “When you say mean things,  it hurts your friends’ feelings and makes me sad. You have to use nice words or I will have to stop setting up play-dates for you.”

Choices and Consequences- 3 Tips for SLPs

Choice Time
Making time during the session for the preschooler to be able to have a preferred choice is the easiest way to start teaching that actions have consequences. While we try to make all of our activities engaging, some are more preferred than others and some are harder work! To help our students grow, we are always pushing to get the most we can from them. Sustaining that attention and effort can be tiring, so having a little free choice time as a consequence for making good choices and responding to our demands (even if they are couched in play.)

Teach Cause- Effect Skills with Toys and Books

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Little ones have to be able to think ahead to the effects, or consequences, of actions in order to make good choices. The easiest way to start teaching this is though toys. They are fun and children can see that their actions have consequences. There are so many great preschool toys for teaching cause-effect. The picture to the left has just a few fun examples. 

Students who have learned the language associated with cause and effect toys are probably into building and imaginary play. You can continue to expand their language skills through modeling in play, but it is a good idea to start incorporating some great cause-effect picture books!

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The picture shows are a few of my favorites. Laura Numeroff's books are just general fun, showing 'what happens when,' as are Margery Cuyler's "That's Bad, That's Good!" series. David Shannon's series of David books shows the consequences of little David's poor choices, with such great pictures! Kids just love seeing other kids get into trouble! Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst is a classic book that lets you introduce perspective taking skills. Does your student think the same way as Alexander?

Actions and Feelings- Social Language
It is so very important that we provide our students with the language for emotions, both verbally and non-verbally, for thinking about how others feel, whether we are modeling sharing during our play with toys or choosing books with appropriate themes for discussion.  SO many of the choices a student makes all day long after entering school have emotional impacts on others! Students who are not able to think about the consequences their actions have on themselves and others lack the basis for making good decisions. When instructional time is spent dealing with behaviors, the student isn’t learning. Having the language skills does not guarantee good behaviors and choices, but it does provide a way to intervene!

February Freebie- Valentine's Color Match Game

February and Valentine's Day are all about love and friendship. I hope you have already downloaded my free game! If not, you can get it at my store.
Add a Little Kindness from Looks-Like-Language!

This week's Freebie for a Fun Friday includes a set of cards to use with my game to open a discussion of kindness. Such an important topic for every room in the school!  It also includes a worksheet that can be used for homework after playing the game. Just click here or on the picture of the cards to add a little kindness to your room!




If you want the rest of the worksheets, sign up with your email in the 'Get my newsletter' box. The link will come in my next newsletter, which is sent out every Tuesday. I realized that I had to speed things up a little to start getting you all of the materials before these mid-month holidays! This way, we can get a head start on March after Valentine's Day!

I hope you are feeling the love!

5 Tips for Toddlers- Language for Choices

Do you need good language skills to make responsible  choices? Definitely! Language and thinking skills are so intertwined.  My last post was about why choices are so important. Now, let’s take a look at the language involved.
Toddlers don’t yet have the language skills to really make choices since they are in the here and now, while making choices is about decisions for the future. When we provide toddlers with two simple visual choices, such as graham cracker or cookie, and label the items, we are doing more than just increasing their vocabulary and requesting skills! We are showing them visually that they have choices and giving them the language they need to make that choice! Think about their play skills, too- working on learning cause and effect. This is a building block for making responsible choices!


SLP tips for toddler’s choices in therapy:

*Attention spans are sort, so have lots of activities available.

*Baskets can really helpful for having similar toys available to grab or put away quickly. Toddlers will use eye gaze first to show their choice when two objects are held up. That is our cue to label the one they want!

*When eye gaze is established, that is our cue to delay gratification a little and wait for a vocalization to occur. Listen for some variation in vowel sounds to occur between the different toys in your basket, and hopefully some consonant sounds will be emerging, too.


*For children who are having problems vocalizing, are a little older, or could possibly be on the spectrum, this is the perfect opportunity to start developing a pointing response. Pointing is much easier to prompt than vocalizations for a child who is not naturally starting to do that.

*Shape a Pointing Response-Hold up two toys to see which one is being looked at. Quickly set down the other toy and scoop that hand under the child’s hand. It is probably already out, trying to grab the toy! Use your hand to mold the child’s hand into a pointing gesture while naming the desired object. Be sure to only let the child get the toy after a pointing response, not a grab! While this feels awkward at first, you will soon become adept at prompting a point. Help yourself out a little by holding the usually preferred toy in your non-dominant hand at first so you can get used to the steps using your dominant hand most of the trials.

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I like this technique for several reasons. First, you are shaping a natural gesture (grabbing) into a communicative behavior (pointing.)  Next, you are pairing the child’s eye gaze with that point, since they are already looking at the item they want. This is so important as prerequisite step for joint attention (the child looking at what you are looking at.) 
Once the child realizes that pointing goes with looking, it opens the door for teaching that your point is telling them to look! You are also starting to teach some of the skills the child will need if he has problems leaning verbal language and has to start by using an alternative communication method. 

Last, and possibly most important, pointing and waiting is such a better social skill than grabbing and taking!

How do you use choices in therapy? If you are still interested in this topic, pop on over to Speech Time Fun this Friday for a summary of my ideas! I'm so grateful for the opportunity to guest post there!

SLP Love Hurts- 5 Tips for Difficult Kids

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The Frenzied SLPs are sharing their stories about how sometimes love hurts for this Valentine's Day. I'm happy to link up!


I still remember the day when I was reassigned to a new school and walked into the classroom to meet my new students. Some were spinning, some were rocking, and some were staring into space. All of them were autistic, non-verbal and had something that I needed to watch out for. I will probably always have that memory. I was in such shock. How was I supposed to teach these children to communicate? Nothing in my experience had prepared me for this!

I immediately began learning;  from courses, from the internet, and especially from watching the staff in the classroom. Even with the biters, the spitters and the hitters I had for years to come, I luckily only got injured once, by accident. Want to hear my tips?

Compassion
Feel the love in your heart for these children with broken communication systems. They aren’t mean! They just get frustrated and lack the means to express it appropriately.
Comprehension
Get to know your students before placing learning pressures on them. Most severely impacted students on the spectrum have sensory issues. Some sensory input makes them happy and others overload them. When students are overloaded and have no way to communicate, “STOP!” their behaviors will be their communication system.
Visuals
Kids on the spectrum are not auditory learners, they are visual learners. Find a way to show the child what your expectations are and what they will get in return. Did you ever wonder where my name came from? This experience cemented my belief in using visual supports.
Vigilance
If you are constantly on your toes, you will see the signs of frustration as they begin to occur. Before the child acts out, react to the difficulty the child is experiencing and the agitation on the part of the child. Go back to an easier task. Think about how you can make your expectations more visual before you try that activity again.
Mix it up!
Have lot of activities prepared. After a few trials of something that is hard to do, do some easy/fun/ review trials.

So, the time I actually got hurt? I was covering a class of children who I didn't know at all. I sat behind the chair of a little guy who was getting antsy and put my hands on the chair so it wouldn't tip over and get him hurt, when he suddenly jumped up and hit my chin with his head! It is ironic that after all of the hours of the close contact that occurs during our speech/language sessions, narrowly avoided injuries, watching out for my biters and suffering through getting spit at, my first real injury was by accident!

Of course, no matter how much we learn, how hard we work, or how hard we try, we may end up getting in harm’s way at some time or another. But, we still come back, seeing the positive qualities of the child in addition to the difficulties.  SLPs are dedicated to helping their students improve their communication skills!

For more stories of how love hurts, go visit the rest of The Frenzied SLPS!

Feeling the Love! A February Freebie

February is a natural choice for discussions of friendship and kindness with Valentine's Day on the way.  Children aren't born knowing how to think about the feelings of others- that is something we teach them. The good news is, it absolutely works when we do spend the time to model and teach our students. Take a look at this post if you want to see some research and links to ways to incorporate this at school.



I'm sharing the love around this month by adding my open ended February game freebie to my TpT store. While it practices color matching, it can be used to work on any skill with the younger set. The worksheets that support it are only available on my blog, however! One new addition will be coming next week. To get the rest of the worksheets this month, you will need to get my newsletter. I'm running out of time before the holiday!


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If you have signed up with your email (top right box) to follow my blog and get my newsletter, you will be treated to the entire Valentines Color Matching game and worksheet set in one download! The link will be in my weekly newsletter. My Valentine's present to you- saving you some time and letting you get prepared ahead of time. With such busy lives, timesavers are always a help!

In friendship- Linda

The SINGLE Most Important Strategy for Dealing with Children

Help your students make better choices! Tips from Looks-Like-Language!
I know, you must be saying, “The single most important….really?”

YES, really! And the answer is… CHOICES!!

Whether you are a parent, teacher or SLP, we all have the same long term goal: to help the children in our lives to learn and grow up to be responsible, independent adults.  Nothing else helps them along the way like being able to make choices.

NO ONE gets to make choices all of the time, that is part of being responsible. But, we all love to have some control and impact in our lives, which is where making choices comes in. Imagine this scenario: Your students/children learn their academics and get to college, having never had any practice making choices.

Suddenly,  there’s a myriad of choices: which friends to make, what courses to take, showing up for class (or not), spending time studying (or not), whether or not to go to that party. Imagine facing all of that, and more, for the first time without ever having any practice! It could be like letting a child loose in a toy store!

Of course, this is an extreme example, but did it get you thinking? Responsibility is knowing what you have to do, and then doing it. Making choices, and sometimes mistakes, gives students the real life practice they need to be able to know when they just need to do what they are told and when they can make their own responsible choices.

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5 Tips for Teaching with Choices

As adults who are helping children to grow and learn, we can guide them along the way by giving them the experience of making choices, when appropriate. This covers a wide range:

Toddlers:  Beginning choices are just based on having two appropriate, responsible choices.
Would you like this book or that one?
Which kind of cookie do you want?
Would you like to eat your fruit first or your cereal first?

Preschoolers:  Present choices along with natural consequences to help young ones start learning to think ahead and make the responsible choice.
You can play nicely with your toy and keep it, or you can bang it and break it. Then you won’t have the toy.
You can eat your dinner and have dessert, or you can throw it on the floor. Then food is done for the night.

School Age:  For situations that can allow choices, try  brainstorming possible choices and their effects, followed up by a discussion of possible consequences (pros and cons.) It is important to model the methods for problem solving and making responsible decisions to build those critical thinking skills.

Middle School: Students at this age are going to make their own choices, often regardless of what you think or whether a choice was being offered. Try to only offer possibilities after you know their plan for how to deal with a situation and see that they haven't thought it all the way through. Of course, students this age still need boundaries and consequences!

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High School:
By now, you are hopefully reaping the rewards of years of teaching students to make responsible choices. In the later teen years, the goal is to increase decision making skills  until the student is able to function as independently and responsibly as possible. This means that students need to be able to determine when they can make choices and solve problems independently and when it is time to ask for help.

Next week, I will be be sharing some more practical tips for how to use choices, focusing more on helping young children communicate  I hope you’ll be joining me!

Do you need some tips now? Check out my post: 5 Tips for a Tough Caseload.
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